The two of you have finally decided to take the plunge and embark on your first cruise as a couple—a big step toward spending some time away together.
We should know, as our first vacation together was a cruise. Eight years later, with many more cruises under our belts, we can still reminisce about that first sailing.
Luckily, we were saved by some very important planning tips and tactics on our inaugural voyage as a couple. So, before taking that initial cruise plunge, check out our seven simple ways to make sure that your first trip together is not your last!
1. First Cruise as a Couple? Declare Your Intentions
There is always the temptation to book a cruise vacation as a gift or surprise for that special someone’s birthday or holiday.
Even though the intentions are noble, this unexpected present may be your first crucial misstep. To avoid any unintentional conflict, let your better half know about vacation ideas beforehand and discuss them together before putting down any deposit.
2. Do a Caribbean Cruise
This might sound like a no-brainer, but only four in 10 cruises sail the Caribbean. Cruise ships sail to all corners of the world.
Depending on where the two of you live, other cruise options might seem convenient or intriguing, but don’t be swayed. Be smart and pick the Caribbean: beautiful weather year-round, tons of ships to choose from, and plenty of good deals.
3. Go Over Cruise Itineraries Together
Even when he or she says, “I don’t care where we go” or “It doesn’t matter which ship we sail on”, here is a little insight…THEY CARE.
Even if one of you does more of the initial work, make sure there are a few options that you can discuss and decide on the “right one” together.
4. Each Pick a Shore Excursion.
The ship is only half the fun of a cruise, and the other half is the new and exciting ports of call you visit. When going on your first vacation together, we suggest that each of you select a shore excursion that interests you.
Book these before you leave so you are guaranteed to get the exact tour you want. If she wants to do that sunset horseback ride on the beach, saddle up and ride.
When he decides you are doing an America’s Cup Challenge on a racing yacht, grab your life jacket and get onboard. This will be a great way to test the limits of your relationship…well, on vacation at least.
5. Plan Your Days at Sea.
Since this is a vacation, there is the lure of going with the flow and seeing what each day brings. This lack of planning could leave you both a bit frustrated and overwhelmed.
Each night, review the next day’s schedule (which is left in your room each evening) and highlight a few of the key things you both want to do, as well as a few things each individual might want to do alone.
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Having a general sense of what the next day has in store in terms of onboard activities will ensure that you are not blindsided when the belly flop contest happens right in front of your deck chair, or you are not disappointed that you missed out on the ice carving demonstration because you didn’t even know about it.
6. Make Sure There is Some YOU Time.
A cruise offers relaxation and many activities you can enjoy together, but that does not mean you must spend every minute of the week together.
Looking over the daily activities, plan to do things you both want to do as a couple but leave some time for a few solo activities.
Maybe she wants to do a morning yoga class or head to the spa for some pampering. Maybe he wants to spend some time at the blackjack table in the casino. That is perfectly fine; we encourage you to find some activities just for you. Remember, distance makes the heart grow fonder.
7. Eat with Other People in the Main Dining Room.
You may be tempted to make this trip all about the two of you, but don’t isolate yourselves when it comes to the main dining room. Get out there and experience everything the ship offers, including meeting new people.
Cruise lines do a great job of pairing couples with other cruisers at dinner. You might make new friends, learn insider tips on traveling and cruising, or have a few good laughs.
Don’t be shy; remember, you will probably never see these people again unless you choose to stay in touch.
Final Thoughts
If you follow these simple tips, you’re set for a smooth and enjoyable first cruise as a couple. Of course, things don’t always go as planned, so start your adventure with an open mind.
If planning your first cruise as a couple feels daunting, you might consider testing the waters by inviting a few couple friends along. Having familiar faces onboard among other travelers can make this new experience easier for both of you.
Whatever you decide, your journey together is sure to be a memorable one.
Don Bucolo is the editor of Eat, Sleep, Cruise and can be found at EatSleepCruise.com.
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