95-Year-Old Retiree Chooses the Cruise Life Over a Nursing Home

For most seniors, retirement means settling into a quiet routine in a familiar setting. But for Lee Wachtstetter, retirement is anything but ordinary.

Instead of moving into a nursing home or a retirement community, the 95-year-old American sold her home and chose to live full-time on a cruise ship, making the ocean her permanent residence.

From Vacationer to Full-Time Cruiser

An elderly woman, perhaps a retiree embracing cruise life, sits on a yellow chair, her colorful blouse contrasting with the large cruise ship Crystal Serenity docked at the harbor. A cloudy sky looms above while a map peeks out behind her, hinting at past adventures and places visited.
(Photo via Kj Giacomoni and Crystal Cruises)

Lee’s love affair with cruising started decades ago. During her 50-year marriage, she and her husband, a banker, took 89 cruises together. When he passed away in 1997, his final request was simple: “Don’t stop cruising.”

She took that advice to heart, completing over 100 cruises, including 15 world voyages. Eventually, she decided to go all in—selling her Fort Lauderdale home and transitioning to full-time cruise retirement aboard the Crystal Serenity.

Daily Life on the Crystal Serenity

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Crystal Serenity (Photo courtesy of Crystal Cruises)

For the past decade, Lee has embraced a lifestyle that most only dream of. The Crystal Serenity, a smaller luxury vessel accommodating 1,070 passengers, provides world-class amenities, fine dining, entertainment, and a built-in social circle.

Affectionately called “Mama Lee” by the crew, she has formed strong bonds with staff and fellow passengers, proving that long-term cruise living can be as much about community as adventure.

Her days are filled with activities, from ballroom dancing and live music performances to educational lectures and spa treatments. Unlike traditional retirement homes, her surroundings constantly change—one day she’s enjoying Mediterranean sunsets, and the next, she’s docking in an exotic port.

Is Retiring on a Cruise Ship a Smart Move?

Two people, embracing the serene cruise life, sit in wooden chairs holding glasses of white wine as they overlook a tranquil body of water. A bottle of wine rests in a metal bucket between them under the sunny sky, with majestic hills across the glistening expanse.
(Photo courtesy of Holland America Line)

The lifestyle offers clear perks for seniors considering full-time cruise living but also comes with challenges.

Advantages of Long-Term Cruising

  • Traveling the world without the hassle of booking trips
  • All-inclusive living with meals, housekeeping, and entertainment
  • Medical services onboard for routine health needs
  • Built-in social life with crew and fellow cruisers
  • No property maintenance or home-related responsibilities

Challenges of Living at Sea

  • High cost—Lee’s expenses are estimated at $150,000+ per year
  • Limited personal space compared to traditional housing
  • Distance from family—she relies on video calls to stay in touch
  • Healthcare limitations—major medical issues may require disembarking
  • Visa restrictions—long-term stays in certain regions may be complex

While $150,000 per year seems expensive, it’s worth noting that high-end assisted living facilities in the U.S. can cost $60,000–$100,000 annually. The added adventure and independence make the expense worthwhile for Lee.

A Growing Trend Among Seniors

An older couple stands on a cruise ship deck, embodying the essence of Cruise Life. The man embraces the woman from behind as they lean on a railing, both smiling warmly at the vast ocean. Empty wooden deck chairs sit peacefully in the foreground, echoing a serene escape for retirees.
(Photo courtesy of Holland America Line)

Lee’s story is inspiring, but she’s not alone. Many retirees are choosing long-term cruising as an alternative to traditional retirement homes.

Some cruise lines, such as Holland America and Cunard, cater to older travelers, offering longer itineraries and enrichment programs suited for retirees.

Some cruise lines offer long-term or permanent residency options, allowing passengers to book back-to-back voyages or purchase onboard apartments. This trend reflects a shift in how seniors are redefining retirement—prioritizing adventure, cultural immersion, and community over a sedentary lifestyle.

A Retirement Like No Other

A person in a captain's uniform kisses an elderly retiree on the cheek. The woman is smiling and wearing a black dress with decorative trim, as if just back from cruise life. They are indoors with blurred people and plants in the background.
(Photo via Kj Giacomoni Facebook)

As Lee continues her journey across the globe, she remains a symbol of embracing life’s possibilities at any age.

Her decision to trade a traditional retirement for a life at sea proves that the golden years can be filled with excitement, new friendships, and unforgettable experiences.